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Sunday, May 20, 2012
Oh no
Just started cramping and bleeding and there was a big clot of something that I think was this pregnancy. Going in tomorrow to confirm but think its over.
Oh sweetie, how awful! I'm so sorry. I can think of lots of stories where this happened and everything was fine, but I bet you can too, and they're cold comfort when you don't know which way this is going to go. Thinking of you with a lot of love as you wait.
Oh, no. I'm so sorry. I know how scary this is but really that doesn't mean the pregnancy is over...esp. with a strong heartbeat just a few days ago. I'll be thinking of you and waiting for update.
Oh no! Rest, right now. Horizontal for the next 12+ hours. Go to the doctor, it sounds like it could easily be subchorionic bleeding - which I had at right around the time you are at now. Scary to say the least, but not the end of the pregnancy either. Rest, drink water, and get in for an u/s tomorrow. It took a few weeks to see the bleed itself, and then a few more to reabsorb, but everything turned out ok. I hope this is all it is is for you!!
Oh no! I am hoping that this isn't over. I can't imagine your thoughts tonight, but will send my best thoughts as you wait for tomorrow. I will echo the hope for something, anything other than the loss of this one. Please universe.
My God I hope not:( hang in there. I'm sorry this is so rocky but I hope like hell that you go in tomorrow and all is well ( and that there is some logical but nonscary explanation for the blood, like a SCH and the blood just worked its way out but the site is all healed).
Very sorry to hear this but still hopeful for good news tomorrow.
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I'm a 42-year old (yikes I hate writing that) woman struggling to maintain my equilibrium (and sanity) while trying to start a family. Turns out that neither is all that straightforward. And now that I have a baby boy, I'm learning to balance family and work without losing my mind!
Mar 2013 -- Go in for Day 2 blood work to figure out where period is and learn I am miraculously pregnant. Beta #1 173. Bleeding at 5w. Gestational sac small and large subchorionic hematoma. But betas still doubling (up to 22,000). At 6w1d fetal pole found and slow heartbeat (65bpm). At 7w2d no heartbeat. M/c #2.
Sep -Dec 2012 -- I've seriously lost track. 2 or 3 more IVF cycles
Aug 2012 -- Let's take a look around -- hysteroscopy.
April 2012 -- IVF #4. 15 eggs retrieved. 14 mature. 6 fertilize. Transfer 3 3-day 8-celled embryos. Beta 1 (12dp3dt) = 39. Beta 2 (14dp3dt) = 104. Beta 3 (16dp3dt) = 264. Beta 4 (19dp3dt) = 920. Beta 5 (22dp5dt or 5w4d) = 2664. U/s at 5w4d shows sac right where it should be. U/s at 6w4d shows 7.7mm embryo with strong heartbeat. 3 days later gone. M/c# 1.
Feb 2012 -- IVF #3. 14 eggs retrieved. 11 mature. Only 2 fertilize. Transfer 1 3-day 8-cell embryo. BFN.
Feb 2011 -- Healthy baby boy born at 36 weeks!
Jun 2010 -- FET #2. Transfer 1 5-day blastocyst. Beta 1 (10dp5dt) = 254. Beta 2 (13dp5dt) = 1326. Scan at 5w6d shows fetal pole measuring 4.55mm and heart beginning to flicker! U/s at 7w6d shows strong hb and 17.2mm.
Mar-Apr 2010 -- IVF #2. 13 eggs retrieved. 5 on day 3. Transfer 2 8-cell embryos. BFN.
Jan-Feb 2010 -- FET #1. Transfer 1 5-day blastocyst. BFN.
Nov-Dec 2009 -- IVF #1. 18 eggs retrieved, 7 on day 3, 5 on day 5. Transfer 1, freeze 2. BFN.
Oct 2009 -- Ready to go! But surprise -- annual clinic 2-week closure.
Jul-Sep 2009 -- Keep trying a few more months, since Boy thinks we need to give it a bit more time.
May-June 2009 -- Go see several REs. Decide to jump to IVF. Full set of bloodwork done. Ridiculously normal.
Feb-Apr 2009 -- Clo.mid, clo.mid and more clo.mid. Nada.
Feb 2009 -- Talk to OB about why I'm not knocked up yet. Have good FSH (6.2) and respond well to Clo.mid (7 follicles)
Nov 2008 -- Married. Yippee!
Aug 2008 -- Stop birth control. Figure my dress would hide an early pregnancy. Hah.
Oh sweetie, how awful! I'm so sorry. I can think of lots of stories where this happened and everything was fine, but I bet you can too, and they're cold comfort when you don't know which way this is going to go. Thinking of you with a lot of love as you wait.
ReplyDeleteOh, no. I'm so sorry. I know how scary this is but really that doesn't mean the pregnancy is over...esp. with a strong heartbeat just a few days ago. I'll be thinking of you and waiting for update.
ReplyDeleteSending much love your way. I know this fear. I passed a lot of clots with the hematoma early on and I really hope that is all it is. Thinking of you.
ReplyDeleteOh no! Rest, right now. Horizontal for the next 12+ hours. Go to the doctor, it sounds like it could easily be subchorionic bleeding - which I had at right around the time you are at now. Scary to say the least, but not the end of the pregnancy either. Rest, drink water, and get in for an u/s tomorrow. It took a few weeks to see the bleed itself, and then a few more to reabsorb, but everything turned out ok. I hope this is all it is is for you!!
ReplyDeleteOh sweetie, I hope that is not true.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you,
kate
Oh no! I am hoping that this isn't over. I can't imagine your thoughts tonight, but will send my best thoughts as you wait for tomorrow. I will echo the hope for something, anything other than the loss of this one. Please universe.
ReplyDeleteMy God I hope not:( hang in there. I'm sorry this is so rocky but I hope like hell that you go in tomorrow and all is well ( and that there is some logical but nonscary explanation for the blood, like a SCH and the blood just worked its way out but the site is all healed).
ReplyDeleteVery sorry to hear this but still hopeful for good news tomorrow.
Oh crap, I hope you are wrong and others are right, either way sending lots of love your way.
ReplyDeleteOh, I'm so very sorry.
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